Dominance/submission

Dominance/submission

Does Being in Love Change the Dynamic?

Truthfully? Sometimes. Being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship 24 hours a day can sometimes change the dynamic. Sometimes, we forget to play. Sometimes, we are too tired to exchange power. Sometimes, I am overly sassy and do not follow directions. But then there’s these other times where the universe connects and our relationship sings to the […]

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Dominance/submission

Do You Live Your D/s in Secret?

The answer to this is: somewhat. We live in a very small town.  We don’t go advertising our relationship to others because, frankly, it’s none of their damn business. Some of my family knows.  My cousin, my cousin’s husband, my other cousin’s wife.  All of Daddy’s family knows.  They just label us as “kinky as […]

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Dominance/submission

My First D/s Experience

Sitting down to write this can be kind of challenging.  It depends on what you call a D/s situation. My first D/s experience by my definition was with my first partner.  He grabbed my throat one day and I decided I wanted more of that. He wasn’t a Dominant, per se. My first experience with […]

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Dominance/submission

Life is Good

Today one of my very good friends gifted Daddy and I with some tantalizing naughty photos.  She wasn’t naked or showing the snatch.  It was just tasteful, teasing pictures.  And we loved them! What a great surprise on a mundane Tuesday!

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30 days of Submission

Day #30

  Is your need to submit being met? If not, or if your situation changed, do you think that you could continue in your life and still be happy/content if you were never able to express your submission in the way that feels best to you again? What makes submission special to you? Is my need […]

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30 days of Submission

Day 27

  Do you have submissive desires or fantasies that you have yet to be able to explore? Do some of your desires confuse or frighten you? Do they excite you? Of course.  What would life be if we fulfilled every fantasy we had?  Pretty boring, no?  I still have fantasies left unexplored. My desires sometimes […]

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30 days of Submission

Day 23

  Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings?   What repels me with submission? 1) Abuse 2) Negative attitudes Because I’ve been in abusive relationships, I hurt when I […]

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30 days of Submission

Day 22

Can you feel submissive without a dominant partner? If so, how does your submission express itself? If not, how do you handle your submission or submissive feelings? Daddy always says that without a submissive, a dominant is nothing.  I’m not sure the reverse is true.  The power lies in the submission.  The exchange of power.  […]

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30 days of Submission

Day 21

Is there a physical position that makes you feel most submissive? Yes, sitting at Sir’s feet.

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30 days of Submission

Day #20

Has your submission increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance? My submission changes from day to day.  In the longterm, I’m a better submissive than I was 5 years ago.  No doubt. We renegotiate every 6 months or so.  Things […]

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