Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings?
What repels me with submission? 1) Abuse 2) Negative attitudes
Because I’ve been in abusive relationships, I hurt when I see others in those type of relationships. Usually, this is online and prompted by some question about “Can my Dom…” Usually, it is a self-appointed Dom who really isn’t a Dom at all. Those type of situations just make me sick.
The second type is when the sub submits, but has a negative attitude and trash talks their Dom. I don’t even like this in vanilla settings. If you need to trash talk your man to feel better, you need a new man or a new attitude. Nothing chaps my hide more quickly that that kind of behavior in a sub.
What about you? What repels you with submission?