Very often the stereotype of submission is that the submissive person loses the ability to have an opinion. While that clearly isn’t true except in the absolute rarest of occasions, how does communication factor into your submission and how do you communicate your desires and needs?
Communication is up there with trust. Without communication, we die a slow and painful death as a relationship. I need to be open and honest with Sir. I try to be. When it comes to heart things, it can be a bit of a challenge.
As I’m going through this submission series, I’m learning I need to submit more fully, more completely. I need to communicate this to Sir, so he can help with it. However, I’m having a hard time finding the words to tell him. He’s always willing to listen, even when my stories or topics aren’t so interesting. I’m a much better writer than speaker. Always have been.
My current needs:
reinforcement of protocol habits
more adventure with Sir
I need to build my trust more deeply.
Maybe Sir will stumble across these pages and see this. 🙂