Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)?
We participate with some aspects of BDSM. Bondage is for sure one of my favorites. I love rope. Daddy tied me up the first time about 6 years ago. It was so much fun.
As far as sado-masochistic behavior…I’m not much on pain. Some sensations of pain (like tattoos) I thoroughly enjoy. I’m not one that can enjoy a lot of pain from spanking and such. However, Daddy enjoys spanking, so I give him a round of spanking every now and again. I always enjoy those sessions afterwards. That’s due to exceptional communication between us.
For me, BDSM is a peripheral portion to my submission. I get more pleasure from my submission and submissive acts than from BDSM alone.