Day 9

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Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules and limits as a part of your submission? How do you feel about them?

Do I expect structure, rules, limits, and routines?  YES!

Do I accept them?  Not always.  Sometimes I’m a better lady than others.

How do I feel about them?

I LOVE the security it brings.  Seriously, I’m obsessed with finding security.  The rules Sir puts in place makes me feel loved, controlled, and protected.  It’s just I’m a little headstrong and sometimes do things my way.  I think I’m better at following them than I was years ago.  That is my goal. Progress.  Progress is way better than perfection.

Some examples of our rules are:

  1. Get Sir’s coffee made first thing in the morning.
  2. Let the dogs out as the second thing in the morning.
  3. Listen more than I talk.
  4. Curb the questions.  (I process by asking questions.  It drives Sir crazy.  I try not to ask so many.)
  5. Answer Sir when he asks a question.  Don’t postpone or ignore.
  6. No orgasms unless Sir okays them.

Those are just a few of my rules.  I love them.  They make me happy.

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