Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?
Am I a switch? Well, this is a difficult question to answer. The best answer is: it depends on what we are talking about.
In terms of BDSM: No way. I’m 100% a submissive.
In terms of day to day life and living 24/7: I can be a switch.
I find that living day to day with my Sir makes it very hard to stay in the submissive mindset every minute of every day. It’s not because of something he does or doesn’t do. It’s about the way I work. Then way my brain works. And sometimes, I just need a little less formality. I hope all this makes sense.