Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are you submissive to play partners or only in the context of a relationship?
I submit to only Daddy. He is so good to me. It has taken about 4 years into our 6 year friendship to submit to him. And even then, there are days that I struggle.
I am headstrong and I am a leader in my field. It’s nice to come home and be able to just follow. However, sometimes, because of that leadership mentality I unknowingly top from the bottom.
Daddy is a very patient man. He is a strong man. He is a leader naturally. The moment he grabbed my hair and kissed me on our first date I was hooked.
I try to be conscious of my service and submission all day long. Sometimes I forget it, but not all the time. I submit only in the context of a relationship. And the relationship has to be balanced for me to submit. If the relationship is off-kilter with communication or anything else, I struggle to submit. I believe that is human nature. Maybe I am wrong. What say you?